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cory zanoni's avatar

"Jam into stubborn shoes." is such a vivid, visceral and well-observed line. Killer stuff.

(Also, yeah, oof to the Paul Graham quote. Reminds me of the time the head of my department at work said they never hear a word I say when presenting because they just love listening to the way I say things. Apparently I slip into a stand-up like patter? Dunno but, hey, the boss is happy.)

Phil Vanstone's avatar

wow thank you!

It’s a gift to be able to do that. Hard-earned?

I took a public speaking seminar once and one of the key lessons was that we often focus too much on nailing exact words at the expense of learning to be comfortable riffing across key points. I think about that every time.

Strmqv's avatar

Gosh… I love your mind mate, and I’m so grateful for this read. Serendipitous that I was just taking notes on an upcoming bestman speech. Love you lots. Never change (except in the ways you want)!

Phil Vanstone's avatar

Likewise my friend! If you want second eyes on that speech I’d be honored

Duckie Louise's avatar

This was such a delightful read!

Phil Vanstone's avatar

Thank you for taking the time!